My SINGLE status

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How many times have you attended a wedding function where friends and family nudge you and ask that dreaded yet unavoidable ...."So when are you getting married?".
When did it become okay for people to direct this question at me? I know I am nearly 23 with a degree and a decent job but I have never given the inclination that I WANT to get married!
I know getting married is Sunnah as Prophet Muhammad (saw) said "Marriage is my way, (i.e. Sunnah) and a person who disdains to follow my way does not belong to me." I know that sooner or later I will have to marry but I have reasons why I am not ready yet:

1) I am not financially stable
2) I am not emotionally ready for that kind of responsilibility
3) I plan to study a lil longer
4) I dont want to have an arranged marriage
5) I havent found any one who wants to marry me yet!

(ps I have my own room with a double bed which I am not willing to give up just yet)